Sunday, July 13, 2014

Spending Time with the Family in Panajachel, Guatemala

Craig, Aracely, Eddy, and Steph
We just returned from our 12th visit to stay with Humberto, Paulina, and the kids since 2007, and our 13th visit to Guatemala overall. Although the flights started out a little rough, and we experienced  a 6.9 magnitude earthquake with its epicenter 60 miles west of us, all in all, trip #13 was a great success.

We woke up at 4 a.m. on Thursday, July 3, got ready, and fed our two new cats, Inca and Maya. This was our first trip since adopting them, and Steve would be taking care of them while we'd be away. We left the house at 5:24 a.m.   We checked two bags and went through security quickly. By the luck of the draw, we were able to go through TSA Pre-Check security line, so we didn't need to take anything off or out of our bags. We went to McDonald's for breakfast, something we only do while traveling.

We boarded at 7:30 for our 8:00 flight. The flight seemed very empty, though the flight attendants had warned us of a full flight.  Come to find out that the computer system had gone down after we checked in and many passengers had to be checked in manually. This same thing had happened 4 years before when we traveled to Gautemala with Mukul. We hoped that we wouldn't miss our connection this time, like we did then. When finally all of the passengers had boarded the plane, we were in a long line for takeoff due to Hurricane Arthur; apparently the whole eastern seaboard was affected.

We took off an hour late at 9:05. We were supposed to have an hour and 40 minute layover in Miami, so this did not bode well for our ability to make the connection. We hadn't requested a wheelchair as it isn't usually a problem on that direction, but we didn't know if Craig would be able to move that fast to make a 49 minute connection.

We were nervous on the flight, as I realized that Humberto had gotten a new cell phone and I didn't know if his number had changed. I had an old one. So if we missed the connection, would we even be able to contact him?

We landed in Miami at 12:04  p.m. and our next flight was scheduled to take off at 12:40. Deplaning took a few minutes, and  our connection was at the next terminal over. We needed to board the Sky Train to get there in time, but there was a sign saying "Sky Train out of service." Our 13th trip to Guatemala seemed to be living up to its reputation. Not knowing what to do, we followed the crowds up the escalator anyway, just as the Sky Train arrived. What? It turns out that just an escalator was out of service. The airport may want to revisit the accuracy of its signage.

We hopped on the Sky Train and took it t the next stop. I looked at my watch. If they truly closed the doors 15 minutes prior to departure, we would probably miss the flight by a minute or two. I ran as fast as I could with Craig making his way behind me. We heard an announcement that it was the final boarding call for our flight. As I approached the gate I frantically waved to the crew members at the desk. "My husband has MS and is getting here as fast as he can..." The woman reassured me that  all was fine and that the flight would be slightly delayed due to a lightning storm. We wished that the status board reflected that so we didn't kill ourselves trying to get there for an ontime departure. But we didn't care...we had made our flight against all odds.

We boarded the flight out of breath and sweaty. "Did you come from Boston?" one of the flight attendants asked. "Yes," I gasped. "We were waiting for you!" After us, a few other folks we recognized from our earlier flight boarded. We quickly used the plane rest room, thinking we would take off any minute. Then they announced that the storm had subsided  and they were free to commence loading the final luggage. Hopefully our checked luggage was part of that. Once the luggage loading was done, they announced that there was a maintenance issue with one of the radios. The maintenance team was in the process of replacing an antenna and we would be on our way as soon as possible. We sat patiently waiting, until they announced that the antenna replacement hadn't fixed the problem and they were "looking for new equipment". Craig was sure that this meant a new plane rather than a new radio.

At 1:50, an hour and 10 minutes after we had been scheduled to take off, they announced that  they had found a new plane for us. Craig had been right! We all got off the plane and walked a few gates down, where a flight to Newark had just been canceled. We had to wait a few minutes while the crew transferred to the new plane, and so I tried to call Humberto. Neither number I had worked. I called Steve and luckily he was able to log into my Hotmail for me and get the new number from Humberto's e-mail signature. I called Humberto and told him we would be at least 2 hours late. He said that the driver was probably already at the airport, but that he would call him and say we wouldn't arrive until around 4 p.m as opposed to 1:15 (Guatemala is currently 2 hours behind EDT). We now had an estimated departure time of 2:45, so we would probably get there closer to 3:15, but 4 would give us a buffer to go through immigration, customs, and pick up our checked  bags. Humberto said that Eddy had already been asking when we will arrive every 10 minutes, LOL.  He thanked us for calling, and we boarded the plane at 2:30.

They still had to reload all of our luggage after removing it from the previous plane, and we didn't end up leaving until 3:48 p.m. The pilot was very apologetic and the crew and passengers were pretty good natured about it. We were now targeting a 4:05 p.m. landing. So much for that buffer! The crew gave away free headsets that were more comfy than our Apple earbuds, so we took them and listened to our Ian Gillan music (Clapton Live in the '70's turned out to be too quiet to be heard over the engines, so we figured that Ian Gillan's screaming would do the job).

Near the end of the flight,  I got up to go to the bathroom, and Craig said "You sat in gum!" Lovely! Now there was gum on the back pocket of the one pair of jeans I had brought. I guess I hadn't seen it when I had sat down. I went to the galley and told the flight attendant and asked for some ice to freeze it off. He said, "What else can go wrong?" I told him about our morning problems in Boston and said that he wasn't kidding. He gave me ice, napkins, and a small towel to sit on, and asked the seat number so that maintenance could clean it later. I went into the bathroom (where the sink didn't work and was full of packages of wet naps) and luckily was able to pick all of the gum off. It was our 13th trip alright, but we kept smiling!

We landed at 4:05 p.m., went quickly through immigration, picked up our bags, went through customs, and were out at the curb at 4:30, where Juan the driver was waiting for us. We were 3+ hours late, and now had to deal with rush hour traffic, but at least we had made it to Guatemala!

The traffic was very bad so Juan took an alternate route out of the city. We got to see some areas we had never seen before. We ran into some rain showers en route. We arrived in Panajachel at 7:45 p.m. Aracely and Eddy were waiting for us in front of the office. Yoselin, Vanesa, and Paola came out to greet us. Yoselin had grown very tall! As the 4th child, she was very close to being the tallest now!

Humberto and Paulina took us up to our new second floor room with Aracely and Eddy. This was the most recently completed guest room, and Humberto assured us that however much we had loved our first floor room, this one was even nicer. It was gorgeous. There was a beautiful piece of artwork on the wall which Paola had made Paulina for Mother's Day. There were two beds, and the wall paint and floor tile was very light and made the room look huge. There were nice windows in the room and en suite bathroom. There were now 4 completed rooms downstairs (two of which are bedrooms for the older four girls) and this one upstairs. The other 3 upstairs rooms were also very close to completion.
Craig gives Eddy a piggyback ride
We chatted with Humberto, Paulina, Aracely, and Eddy in the room. Aracely showed us two pictures of her from school, and she gave them to us to keep. She had just finished 3rd grade and was about to turn 9. She is now perfectly fluent in English, and can easily switch between Spanish and English depending on her audience. Eddy would soon be 6, and had just finished kindergarten. Although he would only speak an isolated word or two of English at any time, he definitely understands a lot more than he did 6 months ago when we visited for Paola's quinceañera. We are so proud of both of them, our two precious godchildren.
Aracely, Yoselin, Paola, Humberto, Paulina, Eddy, Craig
We all went down to the dining room for dinner. We had toasted ground corn tea (maiz tostada imolada) accompanying our veggies and ham with cheese sauce and tortillas.The kids watched Combate on TV. Humberto asked Craig how his health was doing since his MS attack last fall. Craig explained that his medicine had changed - he no longer had to take an injection each day. The kids were thrilled to hear this, as they had always been morbidly fascinated by the process, despite themselves. Now he only had to take two pills orally each day, which was much easier than traveling with syringes which need to be refrigerated in hot climates like Guatemala. Craig explained that he had been doing relatively well, but that he still has balance issues sometimes and needs to be cautious when walking.

It had been a long stressful day getting here, so we were quite tired. We went to bed at 10 without having seen Yasmin at all. Aracely knocked at our door a couple minutes later delivering nice cold Gatorades. That is something they have always done for us, trying to help us keep hydrated. We really appreciate their thoughtfulness. I wrote in the notebook and we went to sleep at 10:20.

After a great night's sleep in our comfy new beds, we woke up at 8:30 a.m. and went down to the dining room at 9. Eddy and Aracely are on summer break from Atitlan Multicultural Academy, and the older girls go to school in the afternoon. So Yoselin was the only one who was at school this morning. We finally got a chance to greet Yasmin and give her an overdue hug. For breakfast we had a milky oatmeal into which we put cocoa krispies. We also had a banana and coffee. The World Cup was on at 10 a.m., so we decided it was a great time to break out the kids' big gift - a tabletop foosball table (or futillo, in Spanish). Humberto helped us to put it together before he went to work (filling in for another guide named Pablo).
Yasmin
Foosball (futillo): Vanesa, Aracely, Craig, Eddy
Once the foosball game was assembled, we all played with it as we watched the Cup on TV. Aracely said that it was the best toy. Humberto has wireless internet now, so we set that up for the first time on my netbook and the kids used it to browse YouTube, Facebook, etc.  Cousins Neli, Josue, and Andrik came over, and everyone had fun playing foosball and with the computer. After the game was over, we watched Spider Man 2 on TV while continuing to play foosball. Paola and Yasmin went to school, and Yoselin came home from school. Yoselin is still the same sweetheart she has been since we met her at age 4. She always has a beautiful smile on her face, and she is effortlessly polite and cheerful. If the camera ever points in her direction, she is gorgeously photogenic. Always.

Yoselin
Vanesa currently works in Humberto's office. She will be starting University in the fall to study business administration. Paola is starting high school (3 years in Guatemala) and wants to prepare to study medicine. She does very well  in school and we believe that she can achieve anything that she sets her mind to. We are so proud of all of the kids!

We had lunch of fried chicken cutlets, mashed potatoes, and salad, with fresh pineapple juice to drink. We played with the kids and brought the foosball table outside.  We went up to the roof with Aracely and saw the nice view of the volcanoes, as well as the small pergola roof Humberto had installed.

Aracely and Steph
Craig and Aracely

It started to rain and we all went inside. We had bread and more toasted corn tea. Paola and Yasmin came home from school. We had dinner of  black beans, huevos rancheros, and barley tea. We chatted with Humberto about food conspiracies "Like Monsanto?" he asked - exactly!  I watched some of Aracely's favorite animated videos with her: El Conojito Negro and Pulcino Pio - El Pollito Pio (Official). The latter was hysterical.  A couple of the kids ran to the store to buy us Gatorades, and  we went to the room at 10:30 p.m.

We woke up around 8 a.m. on Saturday and went downstairs at around 9. We had fresh fruit and barley tea for breakfast.  We played foosball with the kids.  We gave them the shirts we had brought them and we distributed Tic Tacs (Aracely and Eddy's favorite) to them as well as  Josue.  Craig took a shower and we watched the cute "Tinkerbell and the Great Fairy Rescue" on TV. We ate lunch of black beans, fresh home-made guacamole, toasted tortilla chips, fresh tortillas, veggies, and fresh lemonade. The food was always so fresh and delicious. It was a hot day and it was a nice refreshing meal.

Paola and Aracely
After lunch, we walked down to the lake with Paulina, Aracely, and Eddy. Lake Atitlan is a gorgeous crater lake ringed with volcanoes, which brings lots of international and local tourists to the area. The water level was very high - several feet higher than normal. Sometimes because of the movement of fault lines, the lake can't drain properly (there is no real water outlet; it all seeps underground). The beaches where we usually swim were under water. So we went to the shallow water near the boat docks. I went in the water with the kids while Craig and Paulina sat on a cement wall and enjoyed the view from dry land. Aracely has learned to swim well (her school gives them swimming lessons in the local hotel pools) and kept swimming from the dock over to me. I was in the water up to my waist.  It was a hot, sunny day, and the water was refreshing.  We met an El Salvadorean man who was training for a triathlon in Cuba. He says this is the coolest water in Central America, so he came to try out his wet suit. He had swam over 2 km while his girlfriend rode along in an accompanying boat. He said that he was testig how much his lungs compress in the cool water and with his tight wetsuit. They was very friendly.and we enjoyed chatting with them.

Lake Atitlan

Aracely swims to Steph in Lake Atitlan
There was a nice stage set up on a new dock, and it looked ready for an outdoor concert with a gorgeous view. Paulina asked a woman when the concert was, and she was told that there was no concert today due to the World Cup. These people sure do take it seriously, even when their own country isn't a contender.

On the walk home we stopped for ice cream at a food court which was packed with people watching the game on a large flat-screen TV - Costa Rica vs. Netherlands. The whole crowd was really into it, and it was amusing to watch.  Aracely suggested getting frozen yogurt at a little stand called Chooghurt. Craig and I got mora (blackberry) frozen yogurts on a stick, dipped in chocolate. I had mine also dipped in coconut. Eddy had a three colored yoghurt, and Aracely had a blue one which turned her entire mouth bright blue.

We came home and played the Monsters University Left Center Right dice game with Eddy, Aracely, and Josue.  After a while, when Eddy and Aracely lost interest, Josue played with Craig and me. He was very lucky and won 4 times!

Humberto's nephew Victor arrived with his wife Rosa and their daughter Neli.  They brought a nice bottle of Chilean merlot for me, knowing that I can't drink the Brahva beer that the rest of the family would drink. Victor's brother Juan Carlos arrived with his wife Yolanda and kids Junior and Fatima.
Junior is so big now that it is hard to believe that he is only 13!  They came bearing  XL Rum and orange juice. Everyone is always so thoughtful!  We had snacks and the kids played foosball in Aracely and Eddy's room.  Juan Carlos hooked his phone up to a  pair of speakers and played dj. For dinner, we had chicken, beets, sweet grilled onions, and rice. The drinks flowed freely. After the rum was gone, they had Brahva beer and I had the wine, which was very good.  We showed everyone the video we had made of Paola's quinceañera from January. Afterwards we caught Juan Carlos whistling the Tom Waits soundtrack.

Rosa and Victor
Steph and Craig
Yolanda, Juan Carlos, Rosa, Victor, and the kids watch Paola's quinceañera video
Paulina wanted to go to the disco, one of their favorite Saturday night activities. We were certainly up for going out. We told them if for some reason Craig couldn't handle it (whether it was too hot or if he had to stand up for too long), that we knew our way home and that they should continue dancing.

Steph ready to go to the disco
Yolanda, Juan Carlos, and Paulina
Rosa and Victor had to work the next day, so they didn't come with us. We took tuk-tuks to the little night club district on Calle Principal. We went into El Aleph, the disco we had gone to last year. It was hopping with people! But it was hot and very crowded with no place for Craig to sit, so they insisted on trying someplace else. We went right next door to Chapiteau. It had a sort of creepy circus vibe (there was a female clown marionette seated on a trapeze suspended from the ceiling) but the air conditioning  felt comfortable, the music seemed less loud, and it was less crowded. All in all I much preferred this club. Humberto got Craig a Gallo and me a Coke (I was already pretty buzzed from the rum and wine) and we sat while the two couples danced. I took some funky pictures and we enjoyed people watching. Humberto and Paulina invited me to dance, and I gladly joined them.  I always enjoy dancing, and I liked the atmosphere here. I found the dance music to be pleasant enough, including a beat-driven cover of La Bamba.

Disco Chapiteau
Disco Chapiteau
Disco Chapiteau
At 1:00 a.m., they started to play Bob Marley to calm people down as they closed the place. Humberto offered us a tuk-tuk home, but Craig was feeling good so we said we'd rather walk. We stopped at a food stand on Calle Santander and got cheveres - big hot dogs slathered in ketchup, mustard, mayonnaise, onions, and picante. They really hit the spot after a late night of drinking and dancing. Street food is always wonderful that late at night! We sat  at a table on the roadside, enjoying our cheveres and drinking  Dorada Ice beer (except for me, who had tamarind soda.)  We happily walked home with full bellies, arriving at around 2 a.m. After writing in the journal, I went to sleep at 2:30.
Late night street food
Craig enjoys Dorada Ice and a chevere
After only 4 hours of sleep, we were woken up at 6:30 a.m.by the sound of a tile saw and hammering. At 6:30 on a Sunday morning?! Luckily it stopped between 7 and 9 and we were able to get a couple hours' more sleep. Maybe the guy had tried to get a little work in before church. Who knows? We got up at 9 and went downstairs at 9:30. Humberto had forgotten yesterday that he had to work, but luckily secretary Vanesa had reminded him at dinner last night that he had 2 clients. So he was already gone.  Paulina had already gone to the market. We had a fruit plate including our seasonal favorite pitaya (a.k.a. dragonfruit)  with coffee for breakfatsl. The kids watched Disney's 3 Little Pigs and Ugly Duckling on YouTube. They were glued to it. We told them that these cartoons even pre-dated us (and they think we are pretty ancient!)

Eddy and Craig
Aracely and Steph
Vanesa and Yoselin
Paola, Eddy, and Aracely at the lake
At the lake (clockwise): Craig, Paola, Eddy, Paulina, Aracely, Yoselin, and Vanesa
Then we went to the lake with Paulina, Vanesa, Paola, Yoselin, Aracely, and Eddy. We took 2 tuk-tuks to the other side of the bridge, to where there was a nice grassy spot where we could lay our towels and enjoy some swimming.  The lake was very rough today. There were huge waves, which made it a lot of fun, and reminded us of the ocean. Yoselin and Paola didn't swim but they enjoyed hanging out on the shore. The water was a very comfortable temperature. Craig stayed close to the little dock, as it was difficult for him to keep his balance while being battered by the waves.

Swimming in Lake Atitlan
Steph swimming in Lake Atitlan
Vanesa, Paulina, and Fatima

Soon Yolanda, Juan Carlos, Junior, and Fatima arrived.  The sun was out and it was absolutely beautiful. There were lots of other local families swimming, and it was a nice weekend family atmosphere. It was perfect! A helicopter took off from right behind us, and flew very low over the lake. Juan and Paulina had underwater handstand contests, and they had swim races with Junior.

Junior, Juan Carlos, and Fatima
Vanesa and Paola
Aracely, Yoselin, and Steph
After a couple of hours of swimming and sunbathing, we got dressed and walked toward the road. The kids played on the playground for a little while and then we grabbed tuk-tuks home. As soon as we got into the tuk-tuks, it started to sprinkle. What perfect timing!

We got home and took showers, then Juan Carlos, Yolanda, Junior, and Fatima arrived. We gave Aracely her Winnie the Pooh stuffed animal she had requested last time we were here, (she didn't remember asking for it, but was thrilled just the same), and we gave Eddy a monster truck. We shared Starbursts with everyone. The kids watched a horror movie on the computer. Humberto was supposed to be home at 3 o'clock from work for lunch, but the boat was slow and he didn't get back til 4. We had a very delicious soup along with corn on the cob, beef, and some other veggies. Everyone had Brahva beer and I had wine.

After lunch, Juan Carlos, Yolanda, and family said their goodbyes and went home.We had a nice conversation with Humberto and Paulina about Aracely and Eddy's school and saw their report cards. Both are doing great. Even though Eddy doesn't speak much English (only a word or two here and there) he is understanding a  lot more, and is participating more in activities. We are so proud of them!
Aracely and Steph
We gave the kids metal water bottles. We let them choose between the several styles that we brought. Yoselin chose the same one I have at work. I told her that, and she was very happy. Aracely then wanted that one.  She and Yoselin had a playful fight about it. Yoselin teased her with a Simpson's-style "Ha ha!" Aracely stole the water bottle, and Yoselin responded by stealing Winnie the Pooh. Sisters!

Yoselin, Aracely, and I played the Monsters University dice game.  Josue came over and he joined in the game. We had camomile tea and then dinner of huevos rancheros and refried black beans. We played dice some more. Vanesa and Paola ran to the store and bought us Gatorades . We broke up at 10 o'clock. Aracely thanked us for Winnie the Pooh and said she would sleep with him. We went to bed at 10:30.

Craig and I each woke up 5:22 a.m. with the sensation that someone was slightly shaking our beds. Then it changed to a violent forward and backward motion. "Earthquake!" we both shouted. It seemed to last a while, and all went quiet while it was occurring.  The beds would shake  and then would lurch forward, shake a bit more, and then lurch back. You could totally picture the tectonic plates moving below you. Craig was very attuned, listening for cracking sounds that might signal that we should run for a doorway. When the earthquake finished, it was as if someone had un-muted the volume. We suddenly heard the commotion of dogs barking, roosters crowing, and people talking. I checked the compass on my bag and noticed that the motion had been east-west. Craig looked out the window and all seemed ok .We were thankful for the proper construction of our building, done by Humberto's mason brother Mario. We had seen the building under construction, and knew that he had thoroughly reinforced the cinder block walls with rebar and concrete. We were thankful for this.

Craig couldn't see anyone from the family outside,  so we laid back down, but couldn't go back to sleep because of the adrenaline. I texted Steve to tell him about it. He looked it up online and sent us the info (Humberto's router is off at night so I couldn't connect myself). It was apparently 6.9 in magnitude and the epicenter was 60 miles west of us on the Mexico/Guatemala border. Wow - that's close! We wondered if there was any volcano activity, or if the shifting plates would cause the high lake water to recede.

We went downstairs at 8 o'clock. All of the kids were buzzing about the earthquake, except for Aracely who had somehow slept through it (!!?)  I guess sharing a bed with a hyper 5 year old brother makes you immune to shaking like that! There was no school in the western part of the country because of the earthquake. Apparently there were landslides blocking some roads, and they needed to check the safety of the school buildings before students return to classes.

Eddy
We were going on a lake boat tour today, and now that the older kids suddenly didn't have school, the whole family could go. We were very happy to be able to spend the last full day of our visit with all of  the kids. We had breakfast of coffee, fruit, and toast. We opted not to bring our bathing suits today as we had gotten plenty of sun yesterday and didn't want to expose our skin to the strong sun again.

Steph and Craig
Vanesa, Yoselin, Yasmin, and Paola
Paulina, Craig, Vanesa, Paola, Humberto on the boat to San Juan la Laguna
Yoselin, boat captain, Yasmin
At 9 o'clock, we walked down to the lake (the whole family and Josue) and got onto a boat called Heidi. It was another gorgeous clear day and the volcanoes were completely visible.  The water was still high and some docks and homes were submerged. The boat ride was beautiful.  We went to San Juan la Laguna, where we had been when Mukul came with us in 2010.  We walked up the steep hill, stopping in to various cooperatives run by the Tzutzujil Mayan community (Humberto and family are Kaqchiquel Mayan).

Our first stop was a textile studio. Humberto explained the natural materials that are used to dye the threads: bark, flowers, minerals, and even insects.

Next we stopped in at a painting studio. We chatted with one of the artists. He was working on his first large painting. He specialized in the local "birds' eye view" style of paintings where Mayans are depicted from above, doing traditional work such as planting corn, picking coffee, etc. The family had presented us with two of these paintings two years ago. There were all different styles of paintings, including pop art, portraits, religious icons, and landscapes. Some were even done in a pointillism style, or a mosaic style which is best viewed at a distance. Our previous conversation about Monsanto was brought to mind when we saw a painting of an ear of corn being injected with a syringe and subsequently turning the kernels black.

Humberto explains the natural textile dyeing process

Artist paints a bird's eye view painting
Paulina and Yoselin in the art gallery
Josue
 Next we went to a textile cooperative where a Mayan woman in traditional dress demonstrated  how to clean seeds out of organic cotton. The kids tried it and took home a couple of seeds. We wondered if we would find cotton growing in Humberto's garden on our next visit.  The woman then effortlessly spun the cotton into thread on a spindle. When the strand broke, she easily spun the fibers back together between her thumb and index finger and continued the process.

There were murals around the town, depicting various aspects of traditional Mayan life. Humberto explained a mural which showed a traditional bonesetter treating a patient who was anaesthetized by aguardiente liquor. Humberto said that bonesetters were believed to have supernatural shamanic powers. This was a familiar mural to us, as we had studied  it with Mukul four years ago. There were also carvings of the Mayan calendar which were installed as part of the celebration of the end of the 13th baktun on December 20, 2012.

Next we went to a farm which grows medicinal plants and coffee. They sell natural remedies, shampoo, and candles.  Humberto bought me some aloe lotion for my sunburn.  Before heading back to the boat, we stopped at a little shop and we all got cacahuete popsicles (Craig immediately recognized the word: "Peanut!"), which were very tasty and refreshing in the heat. 

Tzutzujil Mayan woman demonstrates spinning cotton
Paola, Vanesa, Craig, Paulina, Aracely, Steph, Yasmin, Yoselin, Eddy, Josue
We walked down the steep hill to the dock and got back onto the boat. On our way back to Panajachel, we stopped near some rocks off of San Marcos, and Humberto and the kids jumped into the water for a swim. Yoselin stayed on the boat with us and Paulina. We enjoyed watching and taking photos as the kids swam and dove off the rocks. Humberto did some flips into the water which I caught on video. The water was a beautiful turquoise color here, and it was relatively calm. They swam back to the boat and the captain helped to pull the little ones back aboard. As we made our way back to Pana, in the bright sunlight with the wind in our hair, surrounded by loved ones, Craig commented on what a perfect moment it was, and how he didn't want it to end.

Vanesa
Swimming at the rocks
Paola dives over Aracely
Disembarking from the boat
We arrived back in Pana shortly after noon. We walked back to the house. We gave the kids some notebooks. We gave Aracely a maze book and Eddy a wooden Tonka helicopter model kit, with screwdriver and screws included. Yoselin helped Eddy to assemble 90% of it, and Yasmin joined in to construct the propellor. It turned out to be a very solid, nice toy.

Humberto cooked churrasco (thin steak) on the charcoal grill and we enjoyed it for lunch with salsa and picante, salad, and fresh watermelon juice. Eddy and Aracely painted the helicopter blue and yellow with tempera paints. Neli and a little girl came over for a visit. The little girl came up to Craig and me  and gave us each a hug. I asked her name and it turned out to be neighbor Gisele! She had grown up so much and it had been a while since we had seen her. She was carrying a little purse and was absolutely adorable. We distributed Starbursts to the kids. Paola was doing the laundry by hand.

Yoselin and Yasmin help to construct Eddy's wooden helicopter
Humberto and Aracely
At around five o'clock, we walked with Paulina, Humberto, Josue, Junior, and all the kids (except  for Yasmin) over to the community fields for a family game of basketball. When leaving the house, we saw Josue's little niece Brittany in the alley. She looked a little scared at first but when I called her by name she smiled and said hola. She is such a cutie. She grew a lot in 6 months!

On our way to the field we ran into the kids' cousin Laisa and said hello. It was nice to see her, as wehadn't had a chance to visit Paulina's side of the family on this trip. We arrived at the field where there were soccer goals on each of the four sidelines. Multiple games were going on at once, as families and friends enjoyed a pleasant Monday afternoon.

Eddy and Josue played soccer while two teams of three (Humberto, Paulina, and Vanesa vs. Paola, Yoselin, and Junior) played basketball. Aracely mostly stayed with us as we took pictures on the sidelines. I think that she wanted to maximize time with us since we would be leaving in the morning. The basketball game was pretty competitive, and they were all good players.  It was fun seeing normally demure Paulina getting aggressive and in her kids' face, stealing the ball away.

After the basketball game, they broke out their new water bottles, rehydrated, and then started to play soccer. The sun had come out and it was quite warm, and we wondered where they all got the energy.  Aracely, Eddy, and Josue also joined in the soccer game. Occasionally Eddy would come over and give us hugs. The sun started to set behind the mountains. The moon was visible. Eddy pointed out the planet next to the moon as "el planeta cerca del moon". We thought his insertion of the English word "moon" was very cute. After the game,  Junior and Paola disappeared and returned with a bag of frozen fruit dipped in chocolate. Humberto said, "Sorry, I told you we eat all the time!" Craig and I each had a piece of frozen pineapple dipped in dark chocolate. It was very good. We walked home at around 7 o'clock.

We took showers and reconvened at 8:15. The kids were dressed up, and Paola was wearing a pretty dress with rhinestones on the front. We gave the kids their last presents - necklaces made by my Mom, and they put them on. Eddy had fallen asleep, but he was awoken with the promise of Tic Tacs for him and Aracely. We also gave him an American football plastic ring.

Family basketball game
Craig, Junior, Humberto, Eddy, Paulina, Aracely, Vanesa, Yoselin, Josue

Steph, Aracely, and Eddy
We walked down to Calle Santander and rook a left. We went into El Bistro, a nice Italian restaurant established in the '70's by an Italian, but now owned by his local protegee. There was some live entertainment (a guy with an acoustic guitar playing sleepy music, which the kids thought was lame). Craig and Humberto got Gallo beers and I got a fresh squeezed lemonade with soda water served in a heavy glass chalice. As an appetizer, they brought plates containing small slices of wheat bread and bowls of molten cheese - delicious!  The cheese was so gooey that as the kids dipped their bread into it, they ended up with long cheese strings attaching their bread to the bowl.  At around this time, the music ended, and the kids were relieved and immediately became more animated.

We had four pizzas - one with all vegetables, and the others with various meat and onions. They were  absolutely delicious. We put hot sauce on them (Guatemalans are known for putting condiments on pizza - we forewent the ketchup but the hot sauce seemed appropriate, and was quite tasty!) Even though everyone was tired after a busy day, it was so nice to all be together on our final night! Since we don't have kids of our own, these are "our" kids, and we love them with all our hearts. We are eternally grateful to Paulina and Humberto for their hospitality, and for sharing their lovely family with us.
Vanesa, Yoselin, and Yasmin at El Bistro

Humberto and Paulina at El Bistro
Craig, Aracely, and Paola
We walked home and Paola gave us a nice hug goodbye, and then went to our room at 10 p.m. Craig went to sleep instantly. After writing in the journal and sending a text to Steve, I went to sleep at 11 o'clock.

On the day of our departure, we  got up at 6:30 a.m. Yoselin came and knocked on our door at 7 o'clock on her way to school. She was quieter than usual and gave us big long hugs. At 7:30, we went out and joined Humberto and Paulina at the dining room table for breakfast.  Humberto told us that our vehicle is here (Eddy's helicopter).  We had coffee, fruit, and toast with pineapple jelly for breakfast.  Aracely woke up and emerged from her bedroom with her Winniethe Pooh.  Then Eddy woke up and came out asking for his Tic Tacs.

A woman from Santiago Atitlan came by outside yelling "Patin! Patin!" This is a local dish from Santiago Atitlan. Paulina ran outside and bought three. They are wrapped in leaves and we sampled one containing beef in salsa with a tortilla. It was quite yummy. Others contained fish in a picante sauce, Humberto's preference. Vanesa came in and greeted us.

The van arrived a little early, shortly before 8:30. Eddy stayed inside (Humberto had told us that Eddy had said he would miss us, so we suspected that he wanted to avoid the actual goodbye).

Humberto, Paulina, Aracely, and Vanesa walked us out to the street. We said our goodbyes and thanks and then left around 8:30.  They continued waving until we turned the corner.  It is always difficult to say goodbye. We enjoy spending time with the children and they always grow and change way too much in between visits. But it had been an excellent trip and our hearts were happy as we headed towards Guatemala City and the airport.

Humberto, Vanesa, Aracely, and Paulina
We arrived at the airport at 10:45. Our layover in Miami was only going to be an hour and forty minutes. We know how far you have to walk to go through immigration there, and Craig would never be able to walk that far in that short a time. Even though he is usually reluctant to admit needing help and uncomfortable taking what he views as "special treatment," I convinced him that we should book a wheelchair to help him get through the Miami airport. We checked in at a kiosk and then asked the woman at the desk to reserve a wheelchair in Miami. Our flight was already delayed by 15 minutes, which didn't bode well for our ability to make our already-tight connection. But we tried to remain positive.

We went upstairs to the food court. We sat at a table and I wrote in the journal and filled out our departure and arrival paperwork.  Then at lunch time, we got 2-piece fried chicken meals with French fries, a dinner roll, and orange Mirinda soda from Pollo Campero. As usual, Guatemalans were buying large to-go bags to take on flights with them for friends and relatives abroad. Pollo Campero is a Guatemalan institution.

After lunch, we then went through immigration and security and walked to our gate. The flight started boarding at around 1:50 p.m. It took no time at all because there were so few people on the flight. The guy next to us moved up to an empty row so we got a row to ourselves. We actualy pulled out at our originally scheduled time (2:25) instead of the delayed time (2:37). I typed up my notes during the entire flight while we listened to Ian Gillan in Black Sabbath.

We landed in Miami at 7:05 p.m. There was a wheelchair waiting for us on the gangway. The woman was very nice. We were very far from customs and had to take the Sky Train to get there. This time all of the immigration kiosks were out in the hallway. We went to a human immigration officer instead. We didn't have any checked luggage to collect, so we went through customs and were then ready to go to our gate. We took the Sky Train back to the same terminal we landed in, and went to the gate. It was now 8:00, and our departure time was 8:40. The wheelchair had really been a blessing. Craig was having some trouble walking tonight due to a busy previous couple of days with lots of walking, so he was thankful that he didn't need to try to run through the airport and risk injury.

I ran over to Cafe Versailles and got us some food to eat on the plane: jerk chicken wraps, orange Gatorade, and chips. We boarded the flight and it took off several minutes late. We didn't care - we were just glad to have made the connection!

We landed in Boston just before midnight. There was once again a wheelchair waiting on the gangway. The nice young man wheeled Craig to Central Parking, where we picked up the car and were home by 12:40 a.m.

Saturday, May 24, 2014

Rest in Peace, Tammy


It is with a heavy heart that I sit down to write the second blog post in a row about losing a cat. We adopted Tammy and Fluffy in 2011 when they were both 15 years old. Their owner had died and they were on the verge of being put to sleep unless they found a home quickly. We were mourning the death of our cat Brownie, and decided that we wanted to give these two girls a home for their senior years.

Tammy was the more outgoing of the two from the start. She was a short-haired tortie with a very friendly personality. She would greet us at the door when we came home from work each day. She loved visitors, though on two occasions she took advantage of them when we weren't home and snuck out of the house. Luckily she didn't go too far (since the weather was cold and we have coyotes and foxes in the yard), and they were able to retrieve her.

When we first got her, we thought that something was wrong with her left eye. It seemed dry and possibly damaged. We took her to the vet and they checked her out, and it turned out to be fine. We learned later that she had a strange habit of sleeping with her eyes open, and that probably explained it.

Tammy had a thyroid condition and was a ravenous eater. We had to keep her food separate from Fluffy's, since Tammy's had her thyroid pill ground up in it. When she finished her own food, she always tried to eat Fluffy's too. She didn't like sticking her face into a bowl of dry food, so she would use her paw to take food out of the bowl,  and eat it off the floor, one piece at a time. When the house was quiet, you could recognize the tinkling of the kibble onto the laminate floor and know that Tammy must be eating.

She was intrigued by bags of any kind. If I brought home shopping bags, I would need to put the merchandise away immediately, or Tammy would jump into the bag and pull everything out. When we packed for trips she tried to stow away in our luggage. If we opened the refrigerator or freezer, she would always try to step in. She seemed to enjoy the cold and she would always sniff around.

She often slept curled up next to Craig and snuggled up against his back. She was never aware of just how sharp her claws were. She would stare vacantly off while kneading her claws on our laps, having no realization tat she was piercing our skin.

She loved the miniature village that we set up each Christmas. Craig would have to build it around her because she liked to sleep in the midst of it, towering over it like Godzilla. She was a playful cat, and she enjoyed wedging herself into tight spaces. We would find her nestled into the track of the sliding glass door, or pressed between our Lego Taj Mahal and the glass of the bay window.

As time went on, her health degraded. Over the last few months we suspected that she was nearly, if not totally, deaf. She stopped greeting us at the door, we assumed because she could no longer hear our car in the driveway. Since she couldn't hear us calling her, we had to look for her. We found her in some strange places, including  underneath the pillows on the bed in the spare bedroom, and in the bathtub or bathroom sink. Her eating became erratic, and her habits changed.

We just returned from a week in Ecuador on Tuesday night. Craig's brother Steve had been taking care of Tammy and keeping her company while we were gone.She stopped eating on the Friday when we were gone, and Steve was worried that she might not make it until we got home. But our girl waited for us before leaving this world. When we got home Tuesday night we spent some quality time with her, and then again Wednesday morning before work.

When we arrived home from work on Wednesday May 21, we found that she had crawled into her cat carrier, laid down, and passed away peacefully.

We insisted on keeping the girls together when we first adopted them. However, we were never sure just how much they liked one another. They stayed very separate and didn't interact with each other very often. But since Tammy passed away less than four months after Fluffy did, maybe they were closer than we realized. For better or worse, they are together once more.

Rest in peace, Tammy. You were a good cat and we love you. Our 2 1/2 years together were too short. The house seems empty without you.








Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Rest in Peace, Fluffy



We came home from work today to find that Fluffy had passed away while sleeping under our bed.

When our last cat Brownie passed away in 2011 after being with us for 17 years, we were very sad. She had been with us since very early on in our relationship. When we took her to the vet to get her cremated, we saw a flyer for two older cats whose owner had passed away and were in need of a home. The house was very quiet without Brownie and we kept thinking about those two cats.

We called the number and over Labor Day weekend, a woman brought them to our house: a long-haired black cat named Fluffy and a short-haired Tortie named Tammy. According to their paperwork, they were both 15 years old. We knew that we were setting ourselves up for loss by taking in older cats, but it wasn't their fault that their owner died, and we wanted to give them some comfort in their remaining senior years.

Fluffy had a hard time adjusting at first. She seemed to have been traumatized by the dogs at her foster home. Tammy adjusted quickly, but they didn't really seem to get along. They tolerated each other and that was about it. We joked that they were probably hoping they'd be adopted into separate homes. Though we were told Fluffy was a lap cat, she hid in our closet for weeks. Eventually she came out of her shell. She was a quirky cat, and we loved that about her. She became very affectionate. She also seemed very smart, and would often respond vocally when we spoke to her.

She had long fur, even on the pads of her feet, and she would slip when she walked on our laminate flooring. She started to join us every night when we sat to watch TV, curled up on our laps. Lately she had taken to sleeping with us, sometimes between our pillow, and sometimes on our pillows and practically on our heads. She loved drawers and cabinets. She would never resist the opportunity to climb in and explore. She also liked it hot. She would go into the boiler room on the hottest days of the year, and generally hang out where it was warmest.

We had to keep her food separate from Tammy's because they each had medications they needed take. Once in a while Fluffy would try to eat Tammy's food. All we would need to do would be to say her name and she would slink off sulking, knowing she had been caught. Tammy, on the other hand, would need to be physically removed from Fluffy's bowl when the situation was reversed.

We were only together for less than two and a half years, but we became very attached to her. She would follow us around the house and would always greet us when we arrived home from work. That didn't happen today, and Craig immediately suspected that something was wrong.

Rest in peace, Fluffernutter; we miss you.





Sunday, January 12, 2014

Paola's Quinceañera in Panajachel, Guatemala


The second eldest daughter of our compadres Humberto and Paulina celebrated her fifteenth birthday on January 4. It is an important rite of passage in Latin American culture, and we wouldn't miss it for the world.

We awoke to the beginnings of a large snowstorm in the wee hours of the morning on Thursday, January 2. Luckily, we were able to fly out of Logan Airport with only a slight delay for de-icing of the plane's wings before the bulk of the storm hit. We made our connection in Miami and arrived in Guatemala City at 11:30 a.m.

After a three hour van ride, we arrived at the house in Panajachel at 2:45 p.m. It was so nice to see all of the kids again! They all grow so quickly! As usual, Humberto had completed many more improvements to the property since our last visit 6 months ago.  An extra bathroom is now hidden behind a Mayan tapestry under the stairwell. With the family now running bed and breakfast services as well as hosting clients in Humberto's office, an extra bathroom accessible from the outside is quite handy.

The rooms on the second floor of the guest house are nearing completion, and these rooms will be used as the venue for Paola's party. We climbed up to the third floor roof terrace. There were no hand rails, so Craig, unsure of his footing due to his MS, had to be very careful. As the quinceañera party would be on the second floor, Humberto was going to have hand rails installed the next day for safety during the party.

From the terrace, we could see Lake Atitlan several blocks away, and its surrounding volcanoes. Humberto showed us the fire pit where they had a fire to celebrate Christmas. Several guests were staying in the first floor guest rooms. Yoselin and Yasmin have moved their bedroom back to the main house to make additional rooms available for guests.

Eddy, Aracely, and Craig
Brittany, Yasmin, and Yoselin
Paola and Loren making decorations
Paola was continuing to make preparations for her big party on Saturday night. She was gluing gold glitter onto styrofoam letters to spell out "Mis 15 Años", or My 15 Years. Humberto told us that they named his nephew Juan Carlos and his wife Yolanda as the padrinos (godparents) of Paola's quinceañera. In Latin America, godparents are chosen for all of the important rites of passage in life, not just christening. Humberto told us that they have been a tremendous help in planning and preparing for the party.

Vanesa's quinceañera, two and a half years ago, had been a low-key family party.  Vanesa doesn't like to be the center of attention. Paola, on the other hand, has been mentally planning her big day for years. She planned to go all-out, inviting family and friends to celebrate in her rite of passage.
Josue and Brittany
Yoselin and Steph
The next day, Friday, preparations for the party continued. Welders came over and installed iron railings on the staircase. Plastic tubs full of chicken arrived at the house. The girls peeled and cut beets. Dozens of plastic tables and chairs arrived and were brought up to the second floor of the guest building. Paulina's sister Olga arrived with her son Chilo to help prepare the chicken. Juan Carlos and Yolanda came over to help with decorations and cooking. Their children, Junior and Fatima came to help as well. Junior is now 12 years old, but has grown so much lately that he looks much older.  The kids' 8-year-old cousin Josue and his 3-year-old niece Brittany were around as well.

Paulina and the women were cooking in the kitchen while the guys and kids put up decorations on the second floor. Paola and Junior filled the piñata. The piñata was Belle, of Beauty and the Beast. It stood taller than Brittany!  The kids filled it with hard candies and lollipops.
Yolanda, Juan Carlos, Craig, Olga, Paulina, and Humberto
Chilo
Everyone took a break from their preparations to eat a nice dinner of pasta in meat sauce. Then Humberto broke out a bottle of Venado light rum and Juan Carlos mixed it with some  Squiz citrus punch, and all of the adults toasted to the occasion.

After a couple of drinks and some good laughs, everyone returned to their duties. Humberto gave the kids bags of green pine needles to spread on the floor to infuse the air with a lovely pine scent. The kids blew up gold and silver balloons. Humberto's niece Sandra brought over a beautiful arrangement of yellow roses. The walls were decorated with gold ribbons. At around 11:30, we called it a night. Juan Carlos' brother Victor arrived, and we capped off the night with a little more rum.

The day of the party dawned with beautiful sunshine. Paola's actual birthday wasn't until the next day, but the family had elected to hold the party on a Saturday night. Humberto went out to do some errands and arrived home in a tuk-tuk carrying three "party packs" of XL light rum. He also brought home 12 pineapples, 6 watermelons, and 6 cantaloupes for a home-made rum punch. Humberto, Juan Carlos, and Junior started an assembly line to process the fruit. Sandra and some of Paola's friends started constructing a balloon arch.

Paulina and Paola returned after picking up Paola's dress and jewelry. We went to the market with Paulina, Eddy, and Aracely to buy the two youngest kids some new clothes to wear to the party.As we were running behind Paulina's schedule, we took a tuk-tuk there. This was probably good for Craig. Tonight's party would last until the wee hours and we didn't want him to tire himself out too early.  Craig's MS sapped a lot of his strength lately.

After each child picked out an outfit, we stopped at the barber shop to get Eddy a haircut. Despite his intense and rambunctious nature,  Eddy always sat stone-still in the old-fashioned barber chair, so much so that the barber could use a straight razor to finish off the edges.
Craig and Aracely
We went home and the last-minute preparations had commenced. Paulina's brother Juan was helping to mix the rum with the gallons of fresh fruit juice they had extracted earlier in the day. The balloon arch was completed and installed in the doorway to the guest building.

They served everyone a bowl of corned beef and cabbage for lunch. Then, as we took showers and got dressed for the party, everyone disappeared. Paola and Humberto took Paola to get her hair done, and the neighboring relatives went to their respective houses.

Family friend Letti and her daughter Nidia arrived with the cake they had baked and decorated. The cake had three separate tiers, though they were not stacked. She placed a doll wearing a gold gown on the center tier. All of the rented plastic tables had been transformed with white table linens and centerpieces. Everything was perfect!
Julisse, Paola, and Vanesa
Soon after, Paola appeared, looking radiant in a floor-length gold gown. She was allowing us a rare glimpse into her girly-girl side, with make up, high heels, fresh flowers, and delicate jewelry.  Craig and I each got a tear in our eye at the sight of her. When we had first met Paola, she was only 8 years old. She had grown from a precocious tomboy to a mature young lady.  It felt like we were seeing our own little girl, all grown up.

Juan Carlos and Yolanda met us, and their daughter Fatima was dressed like a little princess in a sparkly purple gown. Humberto set off firecrackers as we walked down the alley toward the road. We took tuk-tuks to the San Francisco de Asis church in time for the 6:30 Mass.
Paola walks in the opening procession at church
Yolanda, Humberto, Paola, Paulina, Juan Carlos
We sat with Aracely, Eddy, Fatima, and Yasmin in the third pew. The first pew was reserved for Paola, Humberto, Paulina, and godparents Juan Carlos and Yolanda. The five of them walked in as part of the opening procession, and Paola's quinceañera was announced from the pulpit. Paola sat in the front pew with her parents and godparents, holding a beautiful bouquet that Sandra had prepared for her.
Yolanda, Humberto, Paola, Paulina, and Juan Carlos
At the end of the Mass, we took pictures of Paola and the family in front of the altar. As we exited the church, Humberto set off more firecrackers just as the same van that brought us from the airport pulled over in front of the church. People piled in and we were driven the short ride back to the house. A bunch of Paola's friends were waiting near Humberto's office. There were more firecrackers as Paola walked down the alley to her party. The balloon arch welcomed guests, and the newly installed handrails on the stairs kept guests safe as they climbed up to the second floor. There was a receiving line where Paola greeted guests.

Paola arrives at her party with Paulina, Humberto, and Aracely
Three rooms contained tables and the fourth was for dancing. Two dj's played traditional Guatemalan music while guests were seated and served the fresh and tasty rum punch. As we entered the room where we were to sit, we noticed Rocio and her mother Juana sitting at a table with Josue, Josue's mother and father, Brittany, and her father Daniel. We were seated at a table with Paola's godparents from her christening and their young daughter.

Aracely, Yoselin, and Yasmin handed out favors: small roses made of gold ribbon, on which was printed Paola's name and the date of her quinceañera. The girls pinned these onto everyone.  Paola was introduced to the crowd and a toast was made in her honor. She was absolutely beaming.
Paola and her piñata
Fatima
Soon it was announced that it was time for the piñata. Everyone congregated on the stairs (leaning up against the brand new, sturdy iron railings) and in the courtyard to watch Paola try to bash open the princess piñata. She eventually gave up and let Julisse at it. Soon there was candy falling onto the ground. Little kids with plastic bags scurried to pick up as much as they could. Paola threw handfuls into the adoring crowd.

We went back to our table, and Humberto and Paulina sat down with us. Olga's 5-year-old son Chilo came over and asked to use my second camera. He is usually very shy, and I was happy to let him use it. It got him to come out of his shell a little bit as he took photos of the various guests.
Paola, Steph, Humberto, Paola's godparents, Paulina
The family served plates of food: chicken in mushroom gravy, julienne beets, and rice with vegetables. Paola came and sat at our table to eat. After folks were finished eating, the dj's played more modern music, and Paola had the first dance with her dad, Humberto. The empty bedroom had been transformed into a disco, and brightly colored lights played on the ceiling, walls, and floor.

We saw Paulina's sister Estela, and her daughters Laisa, Yesmy, Loren, and Michele.  Laisa looked all grown up, very pretty in a traditional huipil (blouse) and skirt. Blanca introduced us to her baby Dulce Natalie. Olga's youngest, Alison Margarita, was enthralled by Craig as always. Rosa and Victor had come with all of their kids: Julisse, Alex, Andrik, and Neli.

Blanca and Dulce Natalie
Craig, Alison Margarita, and Olga
Paola cut the cake, and good-naturedly let them push her chin into the frosting. The cake was vanilla with jelly in between the layers. The batteries died in my second camera, and Chilo brought it to me. Craig ran down to the room to get more batteries. I replaced the batteries and let Aracely and Loren have a turn to use the camera. Chilo looked crestfallen, and kept asking for the camera in Spanish. It was as if his night had been ruined. When Aracely and Loren were done, I made sure to find Chilo and return the camera to him.

Yoselin asked Craig and I to dance, and we danced with her until we all got tired and needed a rest.
Paola danced the night away with her friends. The younger kids also really enjoyed dancing with one another.as well. Eddy ran around like a wild man. Aracely asked me to dance with her and when we went into the disco room, Rocio joined us.

Everyone had a great time and the party ran until 1:30 a.m. At that point, the music stopped and everyone except the teenagers went to bed.
Rocio and Juana
Michele and Alison Margarita
Neli and Rosa
Estela, Michele, and Laisa
After sleeping in a bit in the morning, we woke up and had breakfast with the kids. Paola opened her gifts from the party. She got a lot of nice gifts befitting a young lady. After that, we all got into clean-up mode. We disassembled tables, cleaned up trash, swept up pine needles, etc. Having been her party, Paola took the lead on clean-up efforts. She worked very hard.

At lunch time, Juan Carlos, Yolanda, Fatima, Junior, Victor, Julisse, Alex, Andrik,  Neli, Josue, and Brittany arrived for lunch. We had leftover chicken in mushroom sauce and rice. Juan Carlos made a cabbage cole slaw and included some hot peppers straight from the garden.

Vanesa, Fatima, Neli, Julisse, Eddy
Aracely and Paulina
After lunch, we made a puzzle of a map of the world with the kids. It was a lot of fun, and as soon as one group of kids finished the puzzle and disassembled it, a second group got to work on it immediately. Craig and I played tic-tac-toe with Yoselin and Fatima, respectively.

Fatima, Aracely, Yoselin, and Josue complete the world map puzzle
It got dark and soon Humberto came home from a day of taking 23 clients on a lake tour. He was done for the day and ready to unwind.  Rosa and Victor, Juan Carlos and Yolanda, and all of their respective kids arrived for dinner. Rosa and Victor set up the charcoal grill and  got some marinated steaks cooking. The adults all drank beer, except for me (I'm allergic). Humberto broke out a bottle of Chilean red wine that he had received from colleagues for the New Year for me.  Victor and Rosa also toasted tortillas on the grill, which we enjoyed with fresh guacamole. The evening air was chilly, and after we enjoyed the delicious steak, we all huddled around the grill like a campfire. Embers popped out of the fire and we brushed them off of ourselves. The radio was on and we joked about keeping the neighbors awake two nights in a row. Luckily most of the neighbors were the family, and they were participants. We disbanded at midnight.

Victor, Rosa, Juan Carlos, Yolanda, Paulina, Humberto, Craig, and Alex


Gathering around the fire: Junior, Juan Carlos, Yolanda, Paulina, Humberto, and Craig
The next morning Aracely and Eddy returned to school after their Christmas break. We hung out with the older girls in the morning (they wouldn't start school for another week). We gave them a rainbow loom for making bracelets out of small colored rubber bands. Yoselin and I tried to follow the pictured steps with the loom, but we were unsuccessful after over an hour. Paola made some bracelets by hand, and we determined that this was the best course of action and did the same. Josue and Loren also joined in. They were soon making brightly colored bracelets, rings, and necklaces.

Yasmin making bracelets
Eddy got home from school at 12:45. We showered, ate lunch, and then walked to the school to pick up Aracely. When she got home, we taught her how to make the bracelets, Soon she was flying through, making bracelets for everyone in her class. She could literally do it with her eyes closed! Paola and Paulina tried using the loom, but were also unsuccessful.

Humberto had to go to a meeting, and he and Paulina announced that the rest of us would be going down the street to her sister Isabela's restaurant for tacos,. Yum! But Eddy crashed and fell asleep at the dining room table before we could go. So instead they decided to get the food as take-out.  Paulina and the kids made a list (many of the kids wanted burgers and fries instead of tacos), but when they tried to order, they realized that the restaurant was closed today.

Paulina didn't want to make food, so we assumed that they would order pizza delivery instead. A few minutes later, she told us that Rosa would save the day by preparing the taco order herself. This surprised us and we wondered how she could prepare so much so quickly, with no notice.

We watched Gravity Falls on TV with the kids (quite funny, even dubbed in Spanish) and soon dinner arrived...plates of tacos, plates of burgers and fries, large bowls of frsh guacamole, salsa, and picante sauce. How could Rosa prepare so much so quickly and professionally? Then it dawned on us. Victor and Rosa own the Yulex restaurant next to Humberto's office. Though they have been working at some nearby villas and haven't had much time for the restaurant lately, Rosa had the food and equipment to make a complete dinner for ten on the spot. We slathered our tacos in salsa and the delightfully hot picante sauce. They were different than Isabela's tacos, but just as good! Chicken, onions, peppers, and cheese. Yoselin and Aracely shared their fries with us. Everything was delicious!
Tacos!
It was Yolanda's birthday today, and she and Juan Carlos stopped by with Junior and Fatima on their way home from dinner. The girls broke out the rainbow loom and taught Fatima and Junior how to make bracelets manually. Juan Carlos attempted to figure out the loom and was actually successful! We were so happy that someone could actually figure out how to use the thing! The party broke up at 11:30 p.m. We went back to our room and started to pack.

It was very windy during the night and we were constantly reminded of the fact as we slept. We were awakened by a crash which turned out to be the empty 750 liter water tank took flight from the third floor terrace of the guest house, smashing down onto the corrugated metal roof attached to the main house. It made quite a dent in the roof, but luckily didn't cause any permanent damage to the tank.

The next morning, we woke up early to continue packing. We met the family for breakfast at 8 o'clock, and then said our goodbyes to godchildren Aracely and Eddy as they headed off to school.  Our van arrived at 9:30, and we said goodbye to the family and headed home. It had been a wonderful visit, as usual. And we had a little surprise waiting for us in our luggage: Yoselin and Yasmin had wrapped up two small stuffed animals for us and hid them in our bags as a surprise.
Saying goodbye to Eddy and Aracely

Paola
We are so blessed that we were able to attend Paola's special birthday celebration. She is such a lovely, responsible, intelligent young lady. We are proud of her for her accomplishments in school as well as the way she helps her mother around the house and her father around the office.

We have been a part of the family for six and a half years. We have seen children growing up into young adults as other new babies are born. Every time we visit, there are new family members to meet. Life is a continuum, and this family is ever-changing. We are lucky to be a part of it.